I have been called a poser by a few people, most of which are not in the authority to call me one. However, people that are also call me a poser or simply insinuate it by saying I "try too hard".
Damn, it's hard to be a chick.
Note: I am a riot grrrl...there is no hierarchy there (seeing as it is not run by males) so I can say it freely. If you think that I'm a poser riot grrrl...well then I believe you are in the right community.